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| Mother-Daughter BFFLs... |
What is it that can cause a teen girl to unapologetically opt to chillax with her mother and spend Mother’s Day with her vs. hangin’ out with friends?
It is probably the “BFFL Bond” that teen girl and her mom share with each other.
BFFL (Best Friends for Life) bonds do not happen overnight…they take an entire lifetime to develop.
In order for the bond to form, continuous and constant efforts have to be made by both the mother and the teen girl.
Days, months, and years of construction need to take place so that the structure of the relationship is inextinguishable, lifelong, and life gratifying on both counts.
BFFL Bonds are necessary to help build and strengthen feelings of self-esteem, self-worth, and self-capacity for both the mother and the teen girl.
While they can and do enjoy expansive networks in their own relationship circles, the Mother-Daughter BFFLs embrace being able to comfortably gravitate back to each other for just about every important decision and adventure.
BFFLs ~ mothers and their teen girls who have figured out the formula for success in their developing and complex relationships.
We should enjoy these BFFL bonds while we still can…because before we know it time passes on quickly and life, geography, and other factors will compete for our attention.
And, only the BFFL bond that is solid and unbreakable will be able to stand that test of time…
Written by Sharon M. Biggs & Danielle M. Biggs ~ Mother-Daughter BFFLs…
Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader & school district administrator who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc. This 24-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog. View other published works at http://www.examiner.com/. Contact Sharon directly for more information: smbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org.
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