Monday, November 30, 2009

Reaching a level of self-actualization ~ doing what we are "born to do"

In 1943 American psychologist Abraham Maslow introduced the concept of “hierarchy of human needs” to the world.  It’s been reported that Maslow did not consider this work to be research as the term is commonly described; instead, it was a study of people.



This study of people has been depicted in various formats, one of which is the following:
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The highest level in the Hierarchy of Human Needs, self-actualization, relates to people doing what they
are “born to do” in their lifetimes.


Maslow claimed that once a person successfully achieves the lower levels of the hierarchy: physiological, safety, love/belonging, and esteem; that person is then positioned to achieve the true targeted lifetime goal of self-actualization.


This might involve a person:
  • engaging in work or study he or she is passionate about – doing what he or she is “born to do”
  • “owning” one’s personality and having a high sense of self-confidence through both successes and failures knowing who you are & being consistent with that knowledge
  • sharing one’s creativity and skills in order to impact local and global change
  • loving and respecting oneself and being able to easily love and respect others while appreciating and accepting all kinds of diversity
  • having and utilizing the resources needed to sustain a healthy and balanced lifestyle 
Reaching the self-actualization level can happen for different people at different stages in their lives. And, because of the regular challenges and circumstances of life, some individuals may never reach the highest level of the hierarchy during a lifetime.

Those who have either achieved or are close to achieving self-actualization may look to help another person reach this same milestone.  This mentoring relationship can then represent further success for both individuals – the mentor and the mentee – leading to a greater number of people living successful lives where they are doing and excelling at what they are “born to do.”




Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog. View Sharon's other published works at http://www.examiner.com/.


Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org


"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Friday, November 27, 2009

Enjoy spending quality time with your family during the holiday season

 Happy Thanksgiving 2009 Weekend!


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Even elephants have figured out how to enjoy quality family time.  

What more can human beings do to enjoy memorable times with our families by overlooking idiosyncrasies or signature behaviors that simply make people who and what they are as individuals? 

Enjoy the rest of the Thanksgiving Holiday Weekend with your families!  Eat, shop, relax, and create lifelong memories that your children and generations to follow will love to talk about!



Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog. View Sharon's other published works at www.examiner.com.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org

"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Helping young children appreciate what they have

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Title:  Professional SAHM or SAHD

Key Accomplishments:   Provide senior leadership in the collaborative and coordinated logistics; public relations; activities; security; medical treatment;  meal preparation; facility improvements, upgrades, and maintenance; budget development and administration; scheduling; goal-setting; daily instruction, and other varied functions as the need arises for the husband or wife and children I am happily responsible for.

Stay-At-Home-Moms & Stay-At-Home-Dads (SAHMs & SAHDs) have no gaps in their work experience…


I often find myself wondering how I can help my children appreciate what they have and how we can instill a sense of gratitude in them.  For children who have all of their basic needs met, this can be a real challenge.  Sure, they say thank you; but how do we help them truly be thankful?

Someone recently wrote about five ways to encourage gratitude.

The first way, “Share something happy,” is one of my personal favorites:  “My daughter and I have a tradition we borrowed from a sweet picture book called Tell Me Something Happy Before I Go To Sleep, and each night as we're snuggling under the covers we take turns sharing good things about our day and good things we're looking forward to in the future.  It's a great way to end the night.”

Such a simple and easy thing to do and it helps everyone go to sleep with smiles on their faces.

Warmest wishes for a happy, safe, and healthy Thanksgiving!

Regards,
Stephanie

Stephanie Evans
Professional SAHM



Stephanie Evans and her husband, Bill, live in New Jersey with their three daughters who are ages five, three, and one.  Stephanie has a B.S. degree in Music Education and taught Music for 11 years in the public school system.  She loves children and enjoyed being a teacher, but she loves being a SAHM even more!

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Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog.  View Sharon's other published works at www.examiner.com.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org

"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Monday, November 23, 2009

‘Tis the season to be grateful and thankful for even the small things


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Around this time of year people begin talking a lot about being grateful and thankful for what they have; even for the small things.

One on-line dictionary of sorts provides a clear difference between the terms “grateful” and “thankful.”  According to this source:

Grateful means that you appreciate what someone has done for you and you want to express your thanks.
Thankful means that you are relieved/pleased that what you hoped for has actually happened.


These definitions might lead us to wonder about whether it’s possible to be thankful for something or someone mainly because things line up the way we want them to.  Or, if there’s potential to be thankful without being grateful for a thing or for a person.

And, when we’re grateful do we always demonstrate thanks in our words and actions?

Significant time is spent on self-reflection, reflection about others, and reflections about past and present experiences during each holiday season; and, oftentimes we may find ourselves asking these reflective questions:

Am I grateful for who, where, and what I currently represent; and what others currently represent to me even if some things in the past or present may not have gone as originally planned? 

Am I thankful that what was hoped for actually came to fruition; recognizing that things could have gone in the complete opposite direction?

Is my life modeling thanks and gratitude, even for the small things?

As we officially enter the 2009 Holiday Season, we can all be encouraged to put thought into some of the “small givens” we may unintentionally take for granted from day to day ~ the people, places, and things around us.  

Along with those thoughts, we’re urged to let others know that we’re both grateful and thankful for who they are and for what they do with and for us.  This can not only help strengthen interpersonal relationships; but it can lead to an improved self-image and a reduction in overall stress levels.

LifelineExtentions.blog is grateful and thankful for all of its readers, followers, and supporters.  We appreciate you for your continued encouragement to provide a "place for candid conversations about some of life's challenges, with a focus on simple solutions..."

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving Holiday with your families ~ from all of our homes to all of yours!

All my best,
Sharon

 
Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog. View Sharon's other published works at www.examiner.com.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org


"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Friday, November 20, 2009

When is it okay for teens to ask for help?

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Sometimes being a teen can be really complicated and even confusing.

There are times when we know that we probably need help from the adults in our lives, but we don’t ask for help.

Why does that happen?

In most cases it’s because we as teens think we can solve all problems on our own.  We tend to think that we are fully grown adults who have enough experience to make all of the right choices.

But, we don’t.

Sometimes we don’t have the experience needed to make smart decisions.  Even in these circumstances, asking an adult for help makes us feel weak and as if we’re still…elementary children.

When we make instant or quick choices on our own, they’re not always the smartest or best choices; but, they make us feel all powerful and in control.  For the moment, anyway.

While temporarily “being on top of the world” may seem like a great feeling, it’s still good for us to remember that it’s okay for us teens to ask the adults we know to give us advice on how to get to the top and STAY at the top.


Danielle M. Biggs
High School Student
Trustee & Administrative Assistant ~ Lifeline Foundation, Inc.


Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog. View Sharon's other published works at www.examiner.com.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org

"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Are children in poverty more likely to witness or experience domestic violence?

Finding current research and study results about domestic violence cases in impoverished communities around the world may be a difficult task.

However, some reports recognize a potential link between poverty and a high frequency of domestic violence – increased levels of frustration are believed to possibly lead to either occasional or ongoing fits of rage and violence in some poverty-ridden homes.

A 1990 study estimated that almost 90% of domestic violence cases go unreported. It was also estimated that almost the same percentage of children actually witness the violence.

Recently, performing artist and multi-million dollar celebrity, Rihanna, spoke out about domestic violence she’d personally experienced.

Rihanna’s story, and that of other affluent and/or middle-income victims of domestic violence; will hopefully provide a springboard for victims from lower means to begin speaking out against and reporting issues of domestic violence they are aware of.






Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog.  View Sharon's other published works at http://www.examiner.com/.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org

"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Monday, November 16, 2009

Consistent team efforts can lead to winning the prize


Photo: AP/Photo (Eric Gay) ~ NY Yankees win 2009 World Series.

The New York Yankees not only won the 2009 World Series – their consistent and acknowledged team efforts earned it.


Institutions and organizations that work toward building strong and effective teams generally have certain characteristics in common that are demonstrated in the form of team efforts.  Among some of those attributes are:

• Effective teams typically have nine or less people in the core group.  Keeping within this number allows for easier relational connections to be made and maintained between team members.

• Having a common purpose, mission, and vision helps strengthen the team and secure deep levels of trust about everyone sharing the one message and using the same language.

• Periodically assessing the effectiveness of the team helps continue good and healthy practices and eliminate bad or destructive practices.

• Strong commitments and contributions by every team member encourage individual team members to continue putting their best foot forward and “stepping up to the plate” when needed.

Understanding and accepting different stages of development while respecting timelines and deadlines empowers the team to tap into the individual strengths of some to help overcome individual weaknesses of others.


During modern times it's almost impossible to avoid working in a team environment both inside and outside of the home.  We'd like to hear from you about effective team strategies you've used or observed in the past.  E-mail us at: lifelineextensionsblogspot@gmail.com.



Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog.  View Sharon's other published works at http://www.examiner.com/.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org

"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Friday, November 13, 2009

November 15th is "America Recycles Day"

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Now in its 12th year, America Recycles Day is a day where all Americans are encouraged to actively recycle and buy products made from recycled materials.

Millions of Americans pledge to improve their recycling habits that day, including the purchase of recycled products instead of newly manufactured products.

Events and activities developed to heighten awareness about the environmental, economic, and social benefits related to consistent recycling occur on November 15th each year.

If manufactured items are not recycled, the world's natural resources may eventually be depleted.


Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog.  View Sharon's other published works at www.examiner.com.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org

"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

ASCD encourages move from highly qualified teacher to highly effective teacher

The Association for Supervision and Curriculum Development (ASCD) is an international educational leadership organization that since 1943 has fostered the advancement of best educational practices and policies designed to help promote success for all learners.

While school districts around the United States realize continued successes in helping teachers achieve Highly Qualified Teacher status in accordance with No Child Left Behind (NCLB) guidelines; the ASCD encourages districts to now take those successes and move from "highly qualified teacher" status to that of "highly effective teacher" status.







Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog.  View Sharon's other published works at www.examiner.com.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org


"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Monday, November 9, 2009

NCLB highly qualified teacher guidelines being met by school districts

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Section 1119 of the 2001 No Child Left Behind Act (NCLB) details requirements and expectations regarding teaching qualifications.  These requirements resulted from conversations among policy makers about observed disparities between the levels of teaching effectiveness and overall quality of teaching in low-poverty vs. high-poverty school communities around the country.

Highly Qualified Teacher (HQT) guidelines were implemented to ensure that effective, meaningful, student-focused, and 21st Century best practices were being implemented by teachers regardless of the demographics of their students.   The focus was to help improve student performance, achievement, and outcomes as a result of aligning the qualifications and effectiveness of teachers.

Developing every diverse learner’s needs was placed at the center of policy decisions made about federal and state preparation, licensing, and certification programs for new teachers.   Requirements for experienced and veteran teachers were also re-evaluated to determine if these teachers were highly qualified to teach the students they currently worked with.

In order to achieve HQT status teachers must:

• Hold at least a bachelor's degree.
• Be fully certified/licensed by the state they are employed by.
• Demonstrate competence in each of the core academic subjects in which the teacher teaches.

According to state departments of education, they “recognized the link between high quality instruction and student achievement, and further, the connection between highly qualified teachers and improved student outcomes.”

School districts support teachers in completing highly qualified status forms and meeting HQT requirements before forms are submitted to their state departments of education for approval.  Districts work first to assign teachers to positions for which they have HQT status.

HQT status becomes “permanent” for a particular teaching assignment once a teacher achieves HQT for that assignment.

With every new teaching assignment there must be a review of HQT status to ensure that all requirements have been met by the teacher.  Professional development and/or college coursework may be employed when teachers do not meet HQT guidelines to provide them with the balance of necessary requirements for a given teaching assignment.

A New Jersey 2008-2009 survey revealed that only 0.3 percent of New Jersey’s public school classes are not being taught by highly qualified teachers.  Both low-poverty and high-poverty districts around the country are working toward having a 100% HQT rate by the year 2014.


Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog.  View Sharon's other published works at www.examiner.com.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org


"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Friday, November 6, 2009

Paraphrasing works better than plagiarizing ~ A Teen Girl’s Perspective



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“Ring-ring-ring!”  Your alarm clock rings, but you don’t move.  You’re exhausted and decide to lie down for just five more minutes.

You fall back into a deep sleep and naturally wake up at 6 am…your bus comes at 6:30…you leap out of bed and into the shower, get dressed, quickly fix your hair into a no-fuss style, gobble down a couple of granola bars and orange juice, and head out the door screaming good-bye to your parents as the bus pulls up to your stop.

Once you get on the bus and plop into your seat…oh, man!  You just remembered you didn’t do your math homework that’s due that day!

The bus pulls up to your school and there’s 15 minutes until school begins.

You find a kid from your math class, and the person willingly lets you copy their worksheet.  While, yeah; that person is being really nice – you haven’t learned anything.  So, when the test day comes you won’t know how to complete this section.

Integrity is most likely shoved down our throats all the time at school, and            maybe even at home; but it really is important.

You probably wouldn’t really want someone to copy your hard work; and if you wrote an essay you wouldn’t want anyone to copy your written work verbatim.  This would be plagiarism.

Paraphrase, if you must; but cite your work (easybib.com); or make up your own words to tell the story.

“Integrity is doing the right thing, even if nobody is watching.”  (Jim Stovall)


Danielle M. Biggs
High School Student
Administrative Assistant & Trustee ~
Lifeline Foundation, Inc.

Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog.  View Sharon's other published works at www.examiner.com.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org

"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Paradigm shifting involves a change from what is familiar to something new & different


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Thomas Kuhn (1922-1996) was the Harvard University graduate and assistant professor who in 1962 coined the term, “Paradigm Shift” to describe conceptual changes in scientific advancements.


In 1986, M.L. Handa introduced the idea of "social paradigm" to the world to describe broad shifts in social situations and institutions, including educational environments. With this model, changes in experiences, values, and belief systems are evidenced.

Weltanschauung describes a “dominant paradigm,” and refers to a society’s standard systems and processes of thought; and the society’s core cultural values.

Although “change is the inevitable constant™,” 21st Century humans and other species experiencing a change may struggle when taken out of their normal comfort zones, despite having a relative understanding of the potential benefits attached to the change.

Leaders of change, or “change agents,” are typically given the responsibility and expectation to usher in sustainable change that may be necessary in order to secure realized improvement or progress in a situation, experience, institution, or societal culture.

Thoughtful provisions can be made to normalize the change as much as possible by the change agent in an effort to help those experiencing the change avoid melting down, shutting down, or rebelling during the change process.

While the provisions made tend to provide some comfort and relief to those being changed; the process of change may still cause temporary breakdowns in communication and composure.

Recognizing and accepting that these responses to change are common and normal helps reduce the amount and type of stress experienced by those being changed, and by the change agents.



Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog.  View Sharon's other published works at http://www.examiner.com/.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org

"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

Sunday, November 1, 2009

New Jersey student volunteer groups provide rays of hope to needy children around the world

For about 10 years, a group of New Jersey parents and close friends met at each other’s homes for social gatherings and play dates for their growing children.  The adults, active in charitable giving, agreed in 2008 to focus on helping the children better understand the importance and benefits that go along with service projects.

The group’s first project involved the children singing during the holidays at the Amelda Nursing Home in Perth Amboy, New Jersey for seniors who were more than happy to be visited by the young performers.  Deciding to become involved in at least one service project each year and formalizing the group by naming it became automatic after the highly successful experience at the nursing home.  

Photo: Copyright Biggs (Rays of Hope Student Volunteers)

Parent, Jessica Merriweather, suggested Rays of Hope as the name; which the group voted on unanimously.

In July 2009, 501 (c) (3) non-profit charitable organization; Lifeline Foundation, Inc. ( LFI) , began organizing its 2009 Book Collection & Donation Drive to raise 1,000 children’s books written in English to donate to a needy public school in The Republic of Panamá as a way to help develop literacy, Bilingual Education, and a literacy-rich library at the impoverished school.

Rays of Hope parents Robert & Lisa Hall were among some of the student volunteer group parent leaders who began talking with LFI about involving student volunteers in the book drive once the new school year officially started in September.  Rays of Hope became involved in the literacy initiative immediately upon hearing about the book drive.

In early October, LFI members delivered a multi-media presentation to the group of 14 children and their parents at the home of The Hall Family, with one of their sons, Dorian, assisting with technology.

Photo: Copyright Biggs (Public School Library in Panamá)
The children ages 7 through 12 actively listened to and engaged in the presentation about service learning,  LFI’s 2009 Book Drive; and about the absence of Bilingual & ESL Education in Panamanian public schools.  Rays of Hope eagerly asked questions to learn more about how to bridge the gap between the educational benefits enjoyed in public schools in the United States and the lack of some of those benefits in Panamanian public schools.

In addition, the student volunteers presented LFI with a donation of almost 600 children’s books.

        Photo: Copyright Biggs (Rays of Hope partnering with LFI to extend helping hands to needy children)
One of the students, Nia Merriweather, and her parents, Phil and Jessica; decided to invite Nia’s gymnastics team, Northeast Elite @ Twisters in Lakewood, to run a drive at their practice studio.  Northeast Elite, a nationally competitive gymnastics team; and the owner of Twisters in Lakewood, New Jersey, organized an LFI book drive that yielded a donation of almost 700 children’s books, 21 DVDs and 84 VHS tapes.  In addition,  various educational toys were donated, and all of the donations were counted by Nia's oldest of two brothers, Phillip II.  After hearing the presentation in October, their other brother, Marques, began thinking of service projects Rays of Hope can help organize to further assist the needy students.

With a growing portfolio that already includes two successful major service learning projects, parent, Glenn Richardson and the other Rays of Hope parents will now look into applying for non-profit status for the student volunteer group.

Lifeline Foundation, Inc. will host a Student Volunteer Service Learning Award Ceremony in 2010 to recognize the efforts of Rays of Hope, Northeast Elite and other student volunteer groups that partnered with them during the 2009 Book Drive to help collect over 5,000 books that can now be donated to assist several needy public schools.


Anyone interested in having a student volunteer group partner with Lifeline Foundation, Inc. on future service learning projects can e-mail them at: info@MyLifelineFoundation.org.

Service learning, according to Youth Serve America, is a teaching and learning strategy integrating meaningful community service with academic study and reflective practice to enrich learning, build civic engagement, and strengthen communities.  Researchers such as Skinner, Chapman, Root, Sullivan, and others, have suggested benefits attached to actively engaging children in ongoing service learning projects:

Encouraged development of professional attitudes and values in students
Greater success in learning how to deal with others
Elevated confidence and self-esteem levels
Increased positive attitudes about community participation
Heightened global awareness about diversity issues and perspectives
Fostered higher achievement and retention rates at all levels of education
Nurtured college and career advancement
Thoughtful self-reflection and reflection about the condition of others
Strengthened global community
Deeper sense of inner contentment as a result of helping others



Sharon M. Biggs, M.A., is a wife, mother, and 21st Century educational leader who serves as Co-Chair & President of Lifeline Foundation, Inc.  This 23-year educator is also Founder, Editor, and Chief Writer of LifelineExtensions.blog.  View Sharon's other published works at www.examiner.com.

Contact Sharon directly for more information: sharonbiggs@mylifelinefoundation.org

"Children are the globe's most precious commodity."
(Terence H. Biggs, Jr. ~ 2009)

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